AD And Clay: Where Are They Now? The Shocking New Life Of The Love Is Blind Star
The dramatic journey of AD and Clay Gravesande on *Love Is Blind* Season 6 captured the world’s attention, culminating in one of the most heartbreaking wedding rejections in the show’s history. Fans have been eagerly tracking the lives of Amber Desiree "AD" Smith and Clayton "Clay" Gravesande, desperate to know if a reconciliation ever happened or what path they took after the altar.
As of late 2025, the reality is a far cry from the wedding day drama. The latest updates reveal a definitive split, post-reunion fallout, and one of the stars moving on in a massive, unexpected way. This is the complete, up-to-date breakdown of the couple, their biographies, and the shocking news that has defined their lives since leaving the Netflix experiment.
Full Biography and Profile: Amber Desiree "AD" Smith and Clay Gravesande
The couple who met sight unseen in the *Love Is Blind* pods were two successful, driven individuals based in Charlotte, North Carolina. Their contrasting views on commitment and marriage ultimately led to their downfall, but their individual careers and backgrounds are notable.
- Amber Desiree "AD" Smith
- Age: 33
- Hometown/City: Charlotte, North Carolina (Originally from Boston)
- Occupation: Real Estate Broker/Agent and former Professional Dancer.
- Relationship Status on Show: Engaged to Clay Gravesande.
- Post-Show Status: Split at the wedding. Now engaged to Ollie Sutherland (*Love Is Blind UK* alum) and expecting a baby.
- Clayton "Clay" Gravesande
- Age: 31
- Hometown/City: Charlotte, North Carolina
- Occupation: Enterprise Sales and Entrepreneur. He is also a former All-American in track and field.
- Relationship Status on Show: Engaged to Amber Desiree Smith.
- Post-Show Status: Split at the wedding. Currently single and focusing on his career.
The Altar Rejection and The Brutal Reunion Fallout
The relationship between AD and Clay was a rollercoaster, fraught with Clay's deep-seated commitment issues stemming from his parents' marriage. Despite AD's unwavering commitment, Clay shocked viewers—and AD—by saying "I don't" at the altar.
Clay's Heartbreak and Regret
In the immediate aftermath, Clay stated that he loved AD but "couldn't say yes" because he wasn't ready to commit to a lifetime marriage. He later expressed significant remorse, admitting that it "broke my heart" to hurt AD and that he regretted his decision. This post-wedding regret led many fans to believe he might try to win her back, creating a major talking point in the *Love Is Blind* fandom.
AD’s Revelation on Reconciliation Attempts
The reunion special and subsequent interviews provided the definitive answers fans were looking for regarding a potential second chance. AD confirmed that while she was open to the possibility of dating Clay post-show, he ultimately did "the opposite" of trying to win her back. She revealed that she had conversations with Clay about the possibility of not moving forward with the wedding, but his actions after the rejection failed to show the commitment she needed.
Clay's actions, including a rumored connection to another reality TV personality, Celina Powell, further complicated the narrative and solidified AD's decision to move on permanently.
The Shocking New Chapter: AD’s Engagement and Baby
The most significant and current update in the "AD and Clay" story involves AD's new, high-profile relationship. After the dust settled from her televised heartbreak, AD found love with a fellow reality TV star, Ollie Sutherland, a fan-favorite from *Love Is Blind UK*.
This transatlantic romance was initially kept quiet but became public knowledge in a major announcement. Ollie, a 33-year-old software sales professional, and AD, 33, quickly connected and built a serious relationship away from the pressures of the Netflix environment.
An International Love Story
The coupling of AD Smith and Ollie Sutherland is a rare crossover event in the *Love Is Blind* universe, proving that the experiment’s core concept can work, even across different franchises. The two share similar values and a clear commitment to their future, contrasting sharply with the issues AD faced with Clay. The news of their relationship delighted fans who felt AD deserved a partner who was ready to commit fully.
The Baby Announcement
In a late 2025 update that has generated massive buzz, AD and Ollie announced their engagement and revealed that they are expecting their first child together. AD has been open about her excitement, sharing updates with her followers and expressing joy at finally building the family she had hoped for. The couple even revealed they have a name for their baby, though they have kept the details private for now.
This development provides a definitive and happy ending for AD, demonstrating a rapid and successful move into a stable, committed relationship just months after her split from Clay. It serves as a powerful testament to finding love after public heartbreak.
Where Clay Gravesande Stands Today
While AD is embarking on a new life chapter, Clay has been focusing on his career as an entrepreneur and enterprise sales professional. He has been active on social media, often addressing his experience on the show and the public backlash, or "trolling," he received for his decision at the altar.
Clay has consistently maintained that his decision was rooted in his personal struggle with commitment and a desire not to fail AD. He has used his platform to discuss mental health, the pressures of reality television, and the importance of personal growth. While he has not found a new public relationship, he seems dedicated to self-improvement and establishing his business ventures.
The "AD and Clay" saga from *Love Is Blind* Season 6 will forever be remembered for its emotional intensity. However, as of December 21, 2025, the narrative has shifted from a story of heartbreak to one of redemption and new beginnings, particularly for AD, who has found a new fiancé and is expecting a baby with a partner from the *Love Is Blind UK* family.
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